From this comic we can infer the following:
Octvia got her belly button peirced after Matt was born; she talks to herself, Willow has no sense of privacy, and this storyline is nowhere near taking pace in real time. Even if I switched back to three times weekly updates, there is no way I could finish up all I want to do before it had been a year since Octavia discovered she was pregnant, and I want them to be married a bit first.